how to get girls

[p8ntbllr2001]

HI, does anyone here have any tips for a 16 year old, paintball playing stud such as myself on how to get a girlfriend?

NEED HELP!!! :hugz: :notsure: :boink: :kisshand: :love:

[Eclipse]

PIMP YOURSELF!!!! say your CAPTAIN DING-A-LING to every hot chick u know and then seal the deal with a :wink:

[mamba_juice]

wear a red dye jersey...im goin on my 3rd just because i wear that thing

[p8ntbllr2001]

how about some tips that wont get me slaped in the face!

[bushwhakersplinter]

just be cool, like friendly and funny. thats how you get em. just funny and friendly, funny friendly

[RangerX]

Learn how to do the moonwalk and the robot, show up at 80's night regularly.

Pimp.

-RangerX

[bushwhakersplinter]

o yeah, that works too

[Won Hunglo]

Buy a boat & ask every girl you see "Wana go for a motor boat ride?"

[5150]

wear pink plasitic kid sun glasses, worked for me last night

[Vantage_TeS]

Buy a 2004 Suzuki GSX-R. Works for me :)

[p8ntbllr2001]

Buy a boat & ask every girl you see "Wana go for a motor boat ride?"

i live in a dessert, theres no water in new mexico

[skyst3alth]

Step 1: Log off the internet

-Adam

[dynastySSS]

step 2: get some guts go up to the girl talk to her!!! and be your self

[p8ntbllr2001]

easier said than done, i dont deal with rejection very well

[mamba_juice]

buy her a drink!

[matthepepe]

buy her a drink!
or 5 if you want an easy lay

[Emmit]

or 5 if you want an easy lay
listen to Matt, he's a young college kid...although most of his dates have taken Rophynol within the last 6 hours:thefinger

[mamba_juice]

and i thought i was a pervert

[5150]

You are 14 you can't buy drinks.

[mamba_juice]

theres always the classic fountain downtown...best malts around, isnt that a drink?

[Emperors Champion]

Cook for them , or in your case take them to McDonalds.Also learn to dance, girls love that kind of stuff. :cheers:

[Doctor]

go to a strip club and pay for it.

[Angel Nate]

Im with mamba, the fountain sounds like a good idea.....you can never go wrong when you keep it cheap....you both walk away happy, you didnt spend a dollar, and shes (hopefully) happy

[p8ntbllr2001]

:cryer: man guys, i appreciate the help... but... but the girl i want to go out with is already seeing someone...(sniff sniff) and the weird part is, he is like 3 years older than she is... and personoly, i think im a lot better looking! :cryer:

[dynastySSS]

awwwwwww he didnt get them grl sad ending with such great advise........ did you even talk to her

[Icehawk]

Hire an assassin. Have him wax her boyfriend. Be the one that the sad impressionable girl falls back on. Problem solved. :smile:

[Vantage_TeS]

Hire an assassin. Have him wax her boyfriend. Be the one that the sad impressionable girl falls back on. Problem solved.

PM me for rates. We can work something out.

[p8ntbllr2001]

YESSSSSSSSSSSS, i think i have the answer, the gosip was wrong, she is not seeing anybody... at the moment, iam haveing a friend of mine getting more info, but i think im going to get lucky this time. WEEEEEEE

[mamba_juice]

am i the only adolescent here that isn't obsessed with paintball and girls (even though there two of the three elements that drive my life)

[p8ntbllr2001]

whats the third, porn LOL

[mamba_juice]

i knew that would come up, but nah...i can live without that. food is probably second on the list...so it goes paintball, then food, then girls, then porn :smiley:

[Vantage_TeS]

YESSSSSSSSSSSS, i think i have the answer, the gosip was wrong, she is not seeing anybody... at the moment, iam haveing a friend of mine getting more info, but i think im going to get lucky this time. WEEEEEEE

Does this mean I dont get to kill anyone? *looks crestfallen* :sad:

[Jouster]

Does this mean I dont get to kill anyone? *looks crestfallen* :sad:
:pat:

I know. But if you think that's crestfallen, you should've seen Ken after he posted the thing about Emmit and matt let him in that it was an April Fools.

Jouster

[thog94]

:pat:

I know. But if you think that's crestfallen, you should've seen Ken after he posted the thing about Emmit and matt let him in that it was an April Fools.

Jouster


Ken already knew beforehand that it was a joke.

[BruceLeroy]

wear alot of spandex!

[Jouster]

Ken already knew beforehand that it was a joke.
I know, thog. Joke, man, a joke.

Jouster

[Jouster]

wear alot of spandex!
Helps at gay bars. Rarely effective at attracting women, unless you happen to be Ron Jeremy, and even then probably not the kind of women you're looking for.

Jouster

[p8ntbllr2001]

arggg, now i dont even think she is interested in me...aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh, when will this torment end!!!!!

[mamba_juice]

if she was hot then she was after you for one of the following reasons...

either

A. she wanted money
B. you were popular
C. she wanted to FORNICATE
D. she was on crack

[Jouster]

arggg, now i dont even think she is interested in me...aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh, when will this torment end!!!!!
Well, I used to say 50 or so, but with Viagra in the picture...

It oughta end around the time pigs fly or you're dead, whichever comes first.

Jouster

[wdp child]

if she is smart...then ask her to tutor you, then you can get close to her.

[p8ntbllr2001]

yeh ok, but from what i have heard, she has been going out with serious a$$holes, but i did have a friend of mine that knows her put in a good word for me, so i hope that will help me

[Jouster]

yeh ok, but from what i have heard, she has been going out with serious a$$holes, but i did have a friend of mine that knows her put in a good word for me, so i hope that will help me
Flirt well.

Eye contact, then blush when she notices and look down at your shoes. Say "hello" a little too often. So on and so forth.

Only do it a few times, though; you'll quickly know whether she's interested. If she's not, move on--you don't want to be the creepy stalker. Girls don't go for that. (Well, the ones you're interested in don't, at any rate....)

Jouster

[Jouster]

Yo,... bro what do you look like? Post a pic of yourself,...
Um, that's kinda creepy, dude.

Jouster

[RangerX]

Um, that's kinda creepy, dude.


http://www.elmoremusical.com/images/tru-dat.gif

-RangerX

[p8ntbllr2001]

u might be a gay stalker or something, not saying u are or anything, but it gives me that idea

[KFCarp]

man i just roll up ][D ][ ][V][ ][D style where ever i go...get her hammerd!!! makes it alot easier


and DONT ASK HER OUT ON THA COMPUTER!!!! ya fricken rook!

[Notorious ADD]

me being only 14 but pimpin lol also if you talk to her dont be like me and start ramblimg on and on about paintball ive had a girl say "shut the hell up" cause i just didnt stop haha so ive learned my lesson the hard way

[p8ntbllr2001]

ya, i have that problem with my family!!! LOL

[bobjim]

I haven't even met this girl I know only talk to her on the net and phone and I have seen pics of her and she has seen pics of me and I think she likes me lol its so funny.
I wish all girls were as easy as she seems to be, I think p8nt could maybe even get her. lol :elephant: :thefinger

[p8ntbllr2001]

i have been giving the girl calls but she never answers her phone?!?! i guess she doesnt like me... sigh...

[bobjim]

haha nice way to PimP it.......does she have caller ID?

[Jouster]

I haven't even met this girl I know only talk to her on the net and phone and I have seen pics of her and she has seen pics of me and I think she likes me lol its so funny.
I wish all girls were as easy as she seems to be, I think p8nt could maybe even get her. lol :elephant: :thefinger
She's probably a 32-year-old man, dude. You gotta be careful about those things.

Jouster

[bobjim]

No she lives around here and she is a year younger then me because I have proof....my best friend has seen her. I am careful like that...lol

[p8ntbllr2001]

haha nice way to PimP it.......does she have caller ID?

man i hope not, i have called like 50 times in 2 days, she might think i am a weirdo...just kiding i have called more like 5 or 6.

[Notorious ADD]

dude 5 or 6 calls is a bit much but ok , also hit *67 to make your number private or call from a cell phone just to see if she wasnt answering cause its you

[p8ntbllr2001]

i was calling from a cell phone and i blocked my number

[p8ntbllr2001]

man this bites, the girl finaly calles me, and i chicken out and say she has the wrong number!!!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[bobjim]

you know what....just shoot yourself what a DA! lol :bike: :lol:

[Emmit]

you shall never....EVER....achieve Pimp status....turn in everything now, you have failed at the training.

[dynastySSS]

omg u loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BMWZR3]

:pat:



I cant belive you did that !



Graphite A-4 Fly
Egg w/ Z board
68 4500 carbon fiber
Nitro duck

[matthepepe]

ive heard of bitching out ... but this just took it to a whole new level.

[dynastySSS]

:owned:

[tippmannpain889]

llaaammmeeee, well you have at least 50 more years depending on how hard you play.

[ricecrispi]

Oh high school... How confusing it was back in those days. Everything is so clouded then you go to college and everyone on the same page.

You caller her so much is alot man. That will scare a girl. You calling her once a day is cool enough. Steady gets you in man the door and bomdarding her gets you kicked out. Once a day shows you like her and want to be steady, not stalking her and shes part of your wet dream fantasies you want to fullfil... Lay off it a week man and give it a rest. You gone pass the limit.

Next tip, Girls like boys too man. They want boyfriends and like to show off like the guys. They want cool confident boyfriends not one's who chicken on phone calls so think like a pimp and act like one man. Confidence is sexy to girls in high school.

If you really struggling become friends with one of her buddies and work the backdoor. It's nice to have someone root and rally for you.

[ricecrispi]

Trust me, give it a week or two man so shecan all forget about it and then you start again.

One more thing. You want a high school girlfriend don't even think about getting laid. So if she's working her way into you wet dream fantasies.... Kepp it at that cuz you ain't get any unless you with her for more than 2-3 months man. That HS for yah.

Are any you guys helping him or you just wanna see this guy wipe out and fall flat on his face? Hand please.

[BruceLeroy]

Or, you could try the spandex. You could emulate the whole glam rock thing. They say it's coming back!

[matthepepe]

If you really struggling become friends with one of her buddies and work the backdoor. It's nice to have someone root and rally for you.

LOL work the backdoor.... doing it IDB w/ her friend doenst sound like a sensible solution.

[Emmit]

LOL work the backdoor.... doing it IDB w/ her friend doenst sound like a sensible solution.
wrong...IDB with the friends is always a solution!!!:hititraw:

[ricecrispi]

I'm saying make friends with one of her friend and take an indirect route, not actually "do the backdoor with he friend." It's kinda like basketball lingo, like he penetrates hard down the lane, he took it strong into the hole, or that was a nice backdoor move!

Boy is only 15, he doesn't even physically comprehends the backdoor or even knows it even exists.

It always hard to talk to girl you can't stop lust over every 15 mins when you 15. It's a lot of pressure to try to talk to the girl you call like 50 times and chicken out on the phone on when finally calls. So it easier to talk to her friend who's doesn't get you close to horny and she wants to be in the gossip ring so she'll help.

[mattcfleming]

I highly recommend going the friend route. Just get to know her friend and make it clear that your interested that your interested... word always gets around.

-Matt

[p8ntbllr2001]

i am friends with like 4 of her friends, but they only made thing s worse!!!

[matthepepe]

then they arent real friends. Remember you obviously did something right in the first place if she called you up. Play off that call her back and say you just realised that was her who called when your phone messe up the other night.

[p8ntbllr2001]

but she reterned my call because my friend took my cell and called her without telling me.

[ricecrispi]

Ha, damn high school. God, I had so much fun and hated it the same time.

Just chill man. You have to play it cool. I'm not feeling you with you freaking out and stuff and she won't either. If you are intimidated by her, you'll never get her so you can't be scared. It like playing paintball and be afraid to get hit! If you think about her all the time you ain't getting her. I'm not saying play hard to get but act kinda like confident and cocky. Nobody wants a desperate person chasing them. If you had a desperate girl doing this to you, you shake her off too.

You need only ONE FRIEND and not 4 of them involved. What happens is you talk to all of them. They each have their stories about you and they are all different. It might not all be good but it adds up to a bigger mess with 4 opinions. No man can handle 5 girls at once, not even mighty Peter North.

One last thing, she's not a god, she's only a high school girl, don't worship her. You get your heart crushed man when you worship a girl. You look up to them and all they do is throw the rock of rejection down on your dreams. You only 15 so you have to pay your dues man and work it up the ladder. Consider this a early start.

[ricecrispi]

3 types of boyfriends girls want in high school

1) the friend or someone they get along. Have a lot in common

2) the one to show off to their friends

3) one they think is hot and want to lose virginity to.

Which do you think you can be.

[matthepepe]

you better say choice 3... thats the only kind of girl you need in HS :)

[p8ntbllr2001]

i think i more the type 1

[mamba_juice]

you better say choice 3... thats the only kind of girl you need in HS :)


im sorry but dont you mean college?

high school is more like #2, and jr. high is #1

[ricecrispi]

you are a 1 type guy so you got to take it slow and work on this girl. Might take a month if not more to get her. You got the will, you got the resources, you need the balls and some skills. Almost a pimp.

If you want to be true pimp you got to work on lots of girls. You can't set sights on one girl. You got be around many of them. More you are around girls the better chances you getting girlfriends cuz you understand how femals think.

Work on a backup plan. Find another girl you like or might be interested and designate her as backup and work either one or both. This helps you build game.

My younger bro use to have girls cling on his legs. He'd get annoyed with one girl and move to the next one in like month or even less. Biggest tip i gave him was to be confident and see girls as a game to beat and not a god to worship. WOMANIZER was what my mom called him. One time he was dating a college girl and he was in HS and she was top notch. He surpassed me and he stinks and dirty!

[hafton]

One time he was dating a college girl and he was in HS and she was top notch. He surpassed me and he stinks and dirty!

that is sum funy ****

[BuNkErEd]

My younger bro use to have girls cling on his legs. He'd get annoyed with one girl and move to the next one in like month or even less. Biggest tip i gave him was to be confident and see girls as a game to beat and not a god to worship. WOMANIZER was what my mom called him. One time he was dating a college girl and he was in HS and she was top notch. He surpassed me and he stinks and dirty!
wow...funny stuff :lol:

[ricecrispi]

Ugly girls, hot girls, stupid ones, no personality, bubbly innocent girls, nasty girls, nerds, loners. They still all the same thing, a girl.
They all game if you want them to be.

Man my bro has gone through the spectrum from just girls i wouldn't let walk behind me to drop ass hot girls. from 0 to 10 from a to z.

My mom actually didn't know the girls names at one point and got them all mixed up. That when she put her foot down and he's slow down. Hopefully he doesn't get into trouble in college cuz girls are loose when they get up there.

[Notorious ADD]

are all girls like wild and crazy in college!!!!!!!!!!! DAMN i wanna be in college not like 9th grade!!!!!!!!! and dude if u want the girl go for it but dont go to fast or shes gunna slap u one hard and crush ur nads so play it cool and u'll do fine.........im a pimp in my grade mmmhhhhmmmm (i wrote this after drinking 4 bottles of coke) :boink:

[p8ntbllr2001]

wow, talk about bringing a thread back from the dead. i still need help u guys. and im not going to ask out any college girls, so dont go there

[Jim@ImpactPaintball]

heres my tip...have no standards and hit on as many girls as possible. 1/1 is waaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy less likely than 1/50.....the more you try the better your chances meng i think if you hit on 50 chicks, one of them will bite.

[PakmanRevd]

Is it me or is there no page 7?

Do what Jim said.

[BuNkErKiNg09]

dude just chill ok. get to know her a little better( if you haven't already) and get the balls to ask her out. i started doing this in freakin 4th grade. and don't do it over the phone, say it to her face and these are the things you must do to get her while asking her out.

1. BE CONFIDENT! You must not be weak when you ask girls out. If they see you like this they will think" Wow that guy has no trouble at asking me out, he must be confident." believe me this works. my friend got turned down by a chick because he was shy, and he can get girls wayyy hotter than i can. Then i went and asked her out 5 min later and she said yes. BE CONFIDENT!

2.Ask her out to her face. This will make you feel like a champ if she says yes. And it once again shows more confidence.

3.Don't look away. Look her in the eye. This is another thing of confidence.

4. THE PLACE YOU ASK HER OUT! This is crucial. DON'T DO IT AT SCHOOL! If you can do it at the HS Varsity football game( works best for me )

5.on't try to do all this " well since we've known each other for a long time" crap. Go for the throat. Ask her striaght up. This will also impress her.

All in all it's all about confidence. DO IT TODAY! don't waste any more time. And if she says no...WHO CARES! your friends can't make fun of you cause you got turned down, it's hppened to everyone, including me.....i'm about 25/30 by the way.

[Vantage_TeS]

heres my tip...have no standards and hit on as many girls as possible. 1/1 is waaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy less likely than 1/50.....the more you try the better your chances meng i think if you hit on 50 chicks, one of them will bite.

Not to mention if you get good at it, you end up with 50 chicks...Jim I like the way you think :slap:

[Vantage_TeS]

Ah yes and dont forget the famous Angel sex appeal. Always, always always wear your Angel pants =D

[Jim@ImpactPaintball]

^^^^^ eww, its like watching my parents make out...eeekkkk

[Jim@ImpactPaintball]

DEFINETLY the worst thing that can happen is a "no"....and we all know what the best thing is...eh eh eh eh eh ehehehehehe

dude.....as many as possible, hit on everything

[Vantage_TeS]

^^^^^ eww, its like watching my parents make out...eeekkkk

Hey now, your moms hot :peace:

[PakmanRevd]

Hey now, your moms hot :peace:

AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

k I am lost now :rofl:

[sk8boardereman]

:boink: :hitit:

[Jouster]

DEFINETLY the worst thing that can happen is a "no"....and we all know what the best thing is...eh eh eh eh eh ehehehehehe

dude.....as many as possible, hit on everything
This quote explains a lot about Jim, I think.... :tongue:

Jouster

P.S. All in good fun, I have no clue if you even have a girlfriend. :smile:

[matthepepe]

Ah yes and dont forget the famous Angel sex appeal. Always, always always wear your Angel pants =D
dude come on now thats §§§§ee dup

[mamba_juice]

i can honesly say that i have never picked up a chick with dye pants...not the core or the C4.....i even have the angel sex appeal on my side.


















or perhaps it's because no women play paintball around here

[matthepepe]

i can honesly say that i have never picked up a chick with dye pants...not the core or the C4.....i even have the angel sex appeal on my side.


















or perhaps it's because no women play paintball around here
dude you've got nothing.

[mamba_juice]

dude you've got nothing.





i knew it :puzzled:


but i've got better things to worry about than girls....like what i'll make for breakfast


i was never good with them anyway....freakin money hungry leeches lol

[Eclipse This]

but i've got better things to worry about than girls....like what i'll make for breakfast


if they spend the night they'd better be make'n breakfast. otherwise they get a swift kick in the pants once i'm done with em.

[DarkHope]

or you could makem "extras" in your new Fly video...25BPS look at this bitch roar!!! :kisshand:

[- KEVIE -]

hows it going any luck

[- KEVIE -]

dude i pmed you so check it out if you read this first

[p8ntbllr2001]

im goin in for the kill... WAM!!!!, i have been slapped. naa j/k. still working on it. im gonna try KEVIE's idea

[- KEVIE -]

by the way i pmed him saying he should ask her and a couple of her girly friends to go paintballin'

[Jouster]

by the way i pmed him saying he should ask her and a couple of her girly friends to go paintballin'
A few things:

1) Make sure there are refreshments available for them.
2) Let them play rec-ball; very few first-time players enjoy Speedball.
3) You should use a rental and let her use your gun. (This also gives you the opportunity to stand behind her, wrap your arms around her, and "show her how to use it". *cough* *cough*)

Good luck!,
Jouster

[little_miss_trouble]

From a girls perspective, yes I am a girl, don't be like Vantage_tes it doesn't work lol. Second of all try not to show your stupidity ALL the time *hehe*. Third talk to us we don't bite.....hard. *wink* :secrets:

[Vantage_TeS]

Ow...I am wounded. I thought you seemed to enjoy yourself ;)

[PakmanRevd]

A few things:

1) Make sure there are refreshments available for them.
2) Let them play rec-ball; very few first-time players enjoy Speedball.
3) You should use a rental and let her use your gun. (This also gives you the opportunity to stand behind her, wrap your arms around her, and "show her how to use it". *cough* *cough*)

Good luck!,
Jouster

Lol you are a genious..lofl

[MoogLe]

i can think of a ton of things to do more romantic than paintball,

which would be plenty more effective

[dark2k2LCD]

but i've got better things to worry about than girls....like what i'll make for breakfast
but isn't better when you're worrying about what they'll make for breakfast :boink:

[Vantage_TeS]

ROFL! Nice one Ben

[Jouster]

i can think of a ton of things to do more romantic than paintball,

which would be plenty more effective
Of course you can think of things that are more romantic; I'm sure any of us could. But that's not the point.

If my girl can't enjoy what I enjoy, that's one fewer thing we have in common and one fewer reason for us to be together. Not saying that she has to don kneepads and ATC's and start doing supermans into the Dorito, mind you, but she should be willing to watch and cheer me on. Similarly, I shouldn't be expected to join in her crying as she reads me another heartwrenching passage from Wuthering Heights (http://www.literature.org/authors/bronte-emily/wuthering-heights/), but it's completely reasonable for her to ask me to be a shoulder to cry on and a sympathetic ear.

Mind you, these are definitely generalizations about each sex's interests, but I'm playing into the mainstream here. Obviously, if your girl loves playing paintball, that's awesome, as would be an interest on your part in 19th-century literature.

My point is, find areas in which the two of you share interests, and, simultaneously, make sure you don't have interests that completely alienate your partner. Only when both of those are satisfied are you ready to build a healthy, long-term relationship.

From a girls perspective, yes I am a girl, don't be like Vantage_tes it doesn't work lol. Second of all try not to show your stupidity ALL the time *hehe*. Third talk to us we don't bite.....hard. *wink* :secrets:
I see this is post #1. Welcome to the board. I also notice you're from Cape Cod; do you hang out at Ken's? Or are you one of his long-talked-about-but-never-seen daughters? At any rate, you'd better be careful; some of these AOG boys haven't had a girlfriend in a realllllllllll long time. Especially Vantage. ;)

Happy hunting (on and off the field),
Jouster

[MoogLe]

i know what you mean jouster, my girlfriend comes to paintball with me at times to watch and she's also played once, she goes to kickboxing with me, to the gym, all that stuff,

but what i meant is, if you're still working on it, there are tons of better things you can do to convince her that you like her, not all girls enjoy getting bruises from paintballs

[Jouster]

i know what you mean jouster, my girlfriend comes to paintball with me at times to watch and she's also played once, she goes to kickboxing with me, to the gym, all that stuff,

but what i meant is, if you're still working on it, there are tons of better things you can do to convince her that you like her, not all girls enjoy getting bruises from paintballs
True. And there are also choices that don't involve you being quite so smelly at the end of the day. A first date should probably involve one of those. (Movies are, by far, the best choice for a first date, in my opinion. No pressure to talk, dark room, sitting next to each other--perfect!)

Anyway, MoogLe, I didn't hear you mention what you do for her. ;)

Jouster

[Emmit]

(Movies are, by far, the best choice for a first date, in my opinion. No pressure to talk, dark room, sitting next to each other--perfect!)
most people actually say a movie is not the best idea for a first date. On your first date you are supposed to be getting to know the person to decide if there's to be a second date....or just a really long first date;)....while in a movie you cannot talk to the person you are with, this cuts down on the amount of time that you have to be able to talk to the other person and find out about them (since that is the purpose of the first date). Movies are a bad idea...however things like minigolf work wonders;) You laugh, you talk, and you have a good time laughing at each other.

[little_miss_trouble]

Aww Vantage, but I did hunny :grin: *giggle*; and Jouster how sweet of you to welcome me (yet my first time here). No, i'm not one of Ken's offspring *grins*, but if you know Jeb, I am one of his (eldest offspring). I'm very careful about the boys that hang around Ken too much don't worrie *smiles innocently* Thanks for the warm welcomes again :-D


:fanboy: (I just did it to make you jealous sweetie *laughs*)


Also I think mini-golf is an AWSOME first date sounds like fun I wanna go. *giggles*

[C.Carles-AOG]

Oh boy, a live girl repyling to this thread. I can see all the kiddies in a frenzy already. I wonder how long it'll take for someone to request a pic...

[little_miss_trouble]

hahaha

[Jouster]

Oh boy, a live girl repyling to this thread. I can see all the kiddies in a frenzy already. I wonder how long it'll take for someone to request a pic...
Oh, man, I'd do anything for a picture of you, Carles!

Ach, hold up. Crap, you didn't mean it that way....

Jouster

[akes]

My Advise to any 15-22 yr olds would be "Talk to them !!!!!!" & it helps to know the answers before the question is asked.

Women are just as Hurny as men LOL , just not as Open about it :)

------------- Big Al

[Jouster]

most people actually say a movie is not the best idea for a first date. On your first date you are supposed to be getting to know the person to decide if there's to be a second date....or just a really long first date;)....while in a movie you cannot talk to the person you are with, this cuts down on the amount of time that you have to be able to talk to the other person and find out about them (since that is the purpose of the first date). Movies are a bad idea...however things like minigolf work wonders;) You laugh, you talk, and you have a good time laughing at each other.
Agreed, but I still think movies are excellent, especially for younger couples. While talking is good, kids are usually so paralyzed to be placed next to the object of their desire that they freeze up. Getting used to being next to their new boyfriend or girlfriend is critical, or they'll never be comfortable when looking silly (as one cannot help but look when playing minigolf ;)).

Certainly, if you're already good friends with her (or him), a movie may not be the best first date. But as a way to allay the fears of a first date with a new interest, especially for adolescents, there are few better choices, in my opinion.

Jouster

[little_miss_trouble]

I think it's cute how you are getting all into this. I think you are right for generalization, getting use to being around the other is key to start to be more relaxed with eachother.

[matthepepe]

So im assuming last weeks trip to meet her at applebees for happy hour wasnt the best idea.

[- KEVIE -]

yeah maybe next time...... maybe next time......MATT. Hey lil miss welcome, yeah id have to agree his goal should be to be able to talk to her and crack jokes on a normal basis(try and create little inside jokes, stuff that will make her giggle), it will better his chances in the long run. If you ever get into a jam well theres that "uncomfortable silence" make a joke about just remember what i told you in the PM message ask alot of questions but not stupid ones. The hardest thing for most guys is actually talking(the whole hunter gatherer mentality have to be quiet or the food runs away).

[p8ntbllr2001]

this is awsome, im acually getting a female to help me with my girl problems instead of a bunch of horny guys. this rocks....j/k about the horny stuff.

[little_miss_trouble]

lol thanks Kevie and p8ntbllr you never know I could be giveing you bad advice :grin: :plug: :evilgrin: (naw i wouldnt do that). Jokes are good but dont go too far with it try and remeber there are times that have seriousness to it (its a hard game)....but now ill hush up and go back to watching you all talk about it and giggle :lol:

[p8ntbllr2001]

it just seems like all the girls i like are already taken by a guy. (go ahead and giggle, im used to being laghed at)

PS: who likes my new avitar!!!

[little_miss_trouble]

:rrrright:

[p8ntbllr2001]

man i like your avitar, she is SIZZLEN!!!!...j/k

[little_miss_trouble]

Thanks...she was done in Poser. I didn't do her it was some other people. I love it.

[p8ntbllr2001]

im gonna have to have u e-mail a girl and tell her to go out with me. naa j/k Its getting kinda embarassing, im 16 and still dateless

[little_miss_trouble]

lol awww poor baby

[p8ntbllr2001]

waaaa, im so lonley and sad..... single sux, i need to speend my $$$ on something other than paintball.

[little_miss_trouble]

lol good luck and grow a spine






(jk)


I'm gonna say nighty night all I have to get writeing (more like babbleing) about the elections *sighs* lovely dreams all *wink*

[p8ntbllr2001]

WINK!!! j/k!!!

[MoogLe]

True. And there are also choices that don't involve you being quite so smelly at the end of the day. A first date should probably involve one of those. (Movies are, by far, the best choice for a first date, in my opinion. No pressure to talk, dark room, sitting next to each other--perfect!)

Anyway, MoogLe, I didn't hear you mention what you do for her.

Jouster


oh i do plenty for her ;)

most people actually say a movie is not the best idea for a first date. On your first date you are supposed to be getting to know the person to decide if there's to be a second date....or just a really long first date....while in a movie you cannot talk to the person you are with, this cuts down on the amount of time that you have to be able to talk to the other person and find out about them (since that is the purpose of the first date). Movies are a bad idea...however things like minigolf work wonders You laugh, you talk, and you have a good time laughing at each other.

and yea i agree with emmit, movies arent the best idea for a date, specially not the first one, you pick her up, get there, watch the movie and drop her off, not much going on

i go to the movies if i run out of other ideas,

what my girl enjoyed allot was pretty simple, we went to a hotel around 8pm and just chilled on a beach chair, listening to the waves and watching the stars, talking, etc. etc..... more comes later ;)

it might sound lame, but it was quite pleasing and i probably enjoyed it just as much as her

it might not appeal as much to all girls, but that's for you to find out

[Jouster]

what my girl enjoyed allot was pretty simple, we went to a hotel around 8pm and just chilled on a beach chair, listening to the waves and watching the stars, talking, etc. etc..... more comes later ;)

it might sound lame, but it was quite pleasing and i probably enjoyed it just as much as her

it might not appeal as much to all girls, but that's for you to find out
Um... did you just suggest that a sixteen-year-old should take a girl to a hotel for a first date? Because, quite frankly, if there's a man who can pull that off at the age of sixteen with the average girl, I'm going to go cry in a corner now. ;)

Anyway, that sounds like quite a romantic date, except for the hotel part. The difficulty of that sort of thing is, again, it can be an uncomfortable situation if you're nervous around each other and don't know what to say. Thus, I will maintain that, for adolescents, a movie is an excellent choice for a date.

Just don't do what I did, and go to "American Pie" on the first date because you assume it's about Don McLean's song. :night:

Jouster

[Hep]

First meeting just drop your clothes and that will get you past all the nervousness and be a excellent ice breaker. Or do what I do, same thing basically, she comes to your place just answer the door naked. Then after thats out of the way take her to a nice place to eat and proceed to get her intoxicated and let the good times roll!

[matthepepe]

First meeting just drop your clothes and that will get you past all the nervousness and be a excellent ice breaker. Or do what I do, same thing basically, she comes to your place just answer the door naked. Then after thats out of the way take her to a nice place to eat and proceed to get her intoxicated and let the good times roll!
so what your saying is find out if they are afraid of snakes before proceeding to do anythin.g

[psychoballer07]

i cannot take this any longer, you are all missing the key ingredient to getting a girl......good old roofies and coke, j/k. in all honesty though, just keep it cool, a girl loves a guy with confidence, which is why i love heps idea about droppin you pants on the first date, shows her 2 things, you have a sense of humor, and confidence



NOTE: DO NOT ATTEMPT THE PREVIOUS STATED STUNT IF THE WEATHER IS BELOW 67 DEGREES. :nono:

[walbuls]

LOL just buy them from russia. Do it Viva La Bam style.

[little_miss_trouble]

lol :rofl: :tongue: I can't help but laugh its cute *hehe*

[p8ntbllr2001]

this aint cute, this is a life or.... DEATH situation i have here

[little_miss_trouble]

sure it is *pats your hand* it's really that horrable we all understand *ahem* :grin:

[p8ntbllr2001]

:embarasse yea yea yea yea yea :embarasse

[p8ntbllr2001]

at least i have the common sense not to answer the door butt naked like u guys suggested

[little_miss_trouble]

I think a guy answering the door for a first date butt naked is quite interesting. *giggle*

[MoogLe]

Um... did you just suggest that a sixteen-year-old should take a girl to a hotel for a first date? Because, quite frankly, if there's a man who can pull that off at the age of sixteen with the average girl, I'm going to go cry in a corner now. ;)

Anyway, that sounds like quite a romantic date, except for the hotel part. The difficulty of that sort of thing is, again, it can be an uncomfortable situation if you're nervous around each other and don't know what to say. Thus, I will maintain that, for adolescents, a movie is an excellent choice for a date.

Just don't do what I did, and go to "American Pie" on the first date because you assume it's about Don McLean's song. :night:

Jouster
nah man, the hotel just happened to have one of the few beaches that was still in good condition after hurricane Ivan came by for a visit,

any beach would have done the trick, i never suggested getting a room or anything close to that, this hotel had allot of outdoor parts so it was someplace we could just wander around,

if that fails just go with the aog pimp's (hep) suggestion, it'll either be a hell yes or an F you Perv! it's like the magic 8-ball

[- KEVIE -]

I think a guy answering the door for a first date butt naked is quite interesting. *giggle*

Oh you lie jk......plus i think it would be hard to find a guy that would actually do that WITHOUT asking him to. :sshh: :flowers: :pointandl

[Vantage_TeS]

Give Hep enough beer and he will do anything. Not suggested for Matt as he just gets abusive.

[matthepepe]

Give Hep enough beer and he will do anything. Not suggested for Matt as he just gets abusive.
I'm nice to girls when im drunk, unless you jump up and get in my face and start yelling at me for calling your boyfriend a homo. That didnt go over so well so i yelled back and said some things that made her dead grandma roll over in her grave.

[Jim@ImpactPaintball]

if a chic you hit on has a boyfriend....compliment him...dont be like "hes a fag...im way better"..girls hate that..instead....say..."oh hes a good lookin guy, take care" and walk away...and NEVER look at her again...they hate wondering why a dude is NOT interested....acting disinterested is like bait man...and they bite alllll the time

EDIT -- always play the disinterested role...they will take notice that you dont notice...and wonder...and approach you instead...less work for you and more action

[matthepepe]

if a chic you hit on has a boyfriend....compliment him...dont be like "hes a fag...im way better"..girls hate that..instead....say..."oh hes a good lookin guy, take care" and walk away...and NEVER look at her again...they hate wondering why a dude is NOT interested....acting disinterested is like bait man...and they bite alllll the time

EDIT -- always play the disinterested role...they will take notice that you dont notice...and wonder...and approach you instead...less work for you and more action
I forgot all the details, the chick wasnt hot, she was a mega bitch, and i didnt even reallly call her boyfriend a homo she just thought i did, so she jumped up and got in my face, i had no idea what was going on other than i was being yelled at.

[p8ntbllr2001]

this aint helping

[nicolaivincent]

Hello young friend, here are the advices of an old french guy.....
First of all be yourself and do not listen to the voice in your mind: if you have problem with rejection then I would sign up to become a priest if I were you, if you are shy and loose control near a lady that might be to you're advantage (remember girls who digg muscle men drinking beer and watching football on valentin's day are no dating material), your sensibility could become a total turn on for a girl.
Then do not act in any way, no point in being a "wanna be " in front of a girl she'll smell the bull§§§§ in seconds, just be yourself and be passionate in everything you do.
Remember you are still young, time is on your side, you're dealing with a girl here they do not have the same conception of time as we do, do not rush anything, if you take your time and wait for the right moment your reward will only be better, give time to the girl to get to know you, to learn what's great in you, those things you can't know just seeing a person. Talk, talk and talk, she's a girl, she loves to talk, but do not talk about you too much, she'll see you as self centered, get her to talk about her (they love it) and we'll realize you can listen (very good point in order to get the girl).
Learn to know each other and to appreciate yourself for who you are and the chemistry will only be better and will operate by itself. I might sound all fashion to you but follow your heart and those leads and there is no chance for you to be disapointed.
last thing I have to say, it might be warm and wet out there always bring something to get cover....
Take care and Bonne chance.

[p8ntbllr2001]

WOW :bowdown: that was insitfull, with all this help im sure to score the :boobies: . or just get :teef: :wall:

[nicolaivincent]

You'll soon realize it's not that difficult, a little bit like the first time you went to bunker someone...

[PakmanRevd]

hurt yourself infront of her..then ask for help standing up... lol..right off the top of the head...hence, i have no girlfriend ;)

[p8ntbllr2001]

join the club

[gintonicd3monic]

cucumber in the pants never hurts

[p8ntbllr2001]

i already have the real deal, i dont need to fake it!!1 j/k

[PakmanRevd]

go to her house..watch a movie...without her knowing..;)

[p8ntbllr2001]

:puzzled: :notsure: :stooges: :boobies:

[Kris1187]

in my life of pimping every girl is different...some play hard to get, some you just have to talk to, it all depends..best way i think is find a girl you actualy would consider in "being your girl friend" talk to her friends see wat she likes and tell them to put ina word for you...then just start talking to her, if you have confidence and arent scared then its easy

[p8ntbllr2001]

already tried that, all here friends did was talk crap about me and they killed my chances with her

[Kris1187]

then just prove them wrong...be straight up and talk to her...make sure you be your self and try not to be nervous

[p8ntbllr2001]

naa, she started datieng someone else after it happend

[Jouster]

naa, she started datieng someone else after it happend
Kill him and take his place.

C'mon, people, this ain't hard.

Jouster

[Kris1187]

C'mon, people, this ain't hard.

Jouster

word

[- KEVIE -]

I would say quit focusing on one girl when there are atleast 5 like her but with some other better qualities( always keep that in mind when you actually find a girl..theres always 5 just like her but better). Just open yourself up to a variety of different types. In fact dont have a type other than that ya never know unless you try.

[BuNkErKiNg09]

A few things:

1) Make sure there are refreshments available for them.
2) Let them play rec-ball; very few first-time players enjoy Speedball.
3) You should use a rental and let her use your gun. (This also gives you the opportunity to stand behind her, wrap your arms around her, and "show her how to use it". *cough* *cough*)

Good luck!,
Jouster

BAD!#3 IS BAD! If you have an angel then you mite want to use it, as if it messes up she won't mess it up/ or just leave the game. let her use the rental guns as they have a less chance of messing up in a game. But if you do let her use it then be her bunker buddy for the day. always stick with her and help her get out of sticky situations.

Then make an awesome runthrough at the end to make her think you are king! :worthy:

[bushwhakersplinter]

^ woot!

[p8ntbllr2001]

^YEA, woot woot!!!

[BuNkErKiNg09]

it works believe me...and wear tight pink spandex to the field...it worked for me( it shows her that you have a sense of humor and you have confidence in yourself)

[little_miss_trouble]

wow look I don't stop in for a few days and just wow lol one thing I read that I dissagree with is:

nicolaivincent :
"Talk, talk and talk, she's a girl, she loves to talk, but do not talk about you too much, she'll see you as self centered, get her to talk about her (they love it) and we'll realize you can listen (very good point in order to get the girl)."

Now you know I really resent that part about "talk talk talk" and "get her to talk about her (they love it)". That is a generalization and I don't take it personally just want to point out that we ALL arnt like that. Other than that part the rest was fine.

You boys crack me up thoe made my day better after reffing a party of 47 people and a percent not knowing english very well, so it looked like I was giveing rude gestures after a person gets shot. ;-)

[p8ntbllr2001]

^ hahahahahha (yes, me 300th post)

[little_miss_trouble]

I see you are easily amuesed

[- KEVIE -]

well i know i am your avatar is dead sexy.

[p8ntbllr2001]

yup (301)

[p8ntbllr2001]

home comming is near, i need help!!!

[PakmanRevd]

ASK HER OUT..not that hard

[Jouster]

home comming is near, i need help!!!
Yep. She's just as scared as you are. Just ask. If you need to, ask her if you can talk to her for a minute, and pull her off somewhere a bit more private, so you don't have all her friends staring at you as you ask. But they will stare when you pull her away in the first place; don't delay because of that, or she'll give up on you and find someone else!

Jouster

[little_miss_trouble]

aww homecomeing is here too (sadly). We have that 'Spirit Week' here and its kinda sad watching children dress up in these random things and clichés. I'm just not one to do all that. I do feel like putting on some costume wings and some kinda freaky dress with thigh high boots and fishnets to see the shock value (only for my own amusement im selfish that way). Then I want to get some boots that i can run in and play paintball like that ;-).

I agree with the rest of them just grow a spine and ask her don't be scared or rejection becuase it's gonna happen sooner or later. :-) I've had it happen before...not that big of a deal.

[- KEVIE -]

Yeah Paki's the pimp hes been getting offers and he doesnt even go the same school its his ex-school. Leaving a big'ol trail behind....PLAYA sw337

[- KEVIE -]

I think someone mentioned it earlier its like bunkering for the first time you just have to keep doing to find out what works and what doesnt. If you can paintball then you can ask a girl to Homecoming.

[- KEVIE -]

If shes a nice girl whos a little shy then she probably wont say no...... unless someone already asked her.

[PakmanRevd]

yup..

lol today i was at SP tlakin to some chick.. TK yelled for me.. and she asked "whoa, you're paki? I hear so much about you." lol.. w00t

[- KEVIE -]

Sw337

[Jouster]

...I do feel like putting on some costume wings and some kinda freaky dress with thigh high boots and fishnets to see the shock value (only for my own amusement im selfish that way). Then I want to get some boots that i can run in and play paintball like that ;-).
Sensible, yet sexy--a perfect combination! ;)

Alas, though, you've been trumped by the girl who insists on coming to the local field every weekend wearing a V-neck sleeveless shirt. She claims she gets too hot in a shirt that covers her up. Well, she might not be getting too hot, but all the oversexed teenaged boys running around on the field with her, on the other hand....

Jouster

[PakmanRevd]

ahahahhaha

JUST ASK HER TO IT..here i will creat a script

You: *pulls her way from friends* (NOT YANK) hey, wanna go to <dance name here> with me?
Her: like omg like totally..

....

winnar j00 are!

I think I'll use that script for friday..lofl, even tho i dont go to that school anymore...hitting on freshman is fun. :tongue:

k, school calls. bye bye

[matthepepe]

be a man go for the SDSU chicks.

[Hep]

Just be forward, works for me everytime. Do this just say to her so what are we gonna do after the dance? She'll be like what? Then you say after I pick you up and we are done at the dance what do you want to do after that? Basically your implying your taking her and she now isnt on the spot as much. I meet a g/f in traffic court like that. She sat next to me and after a bit of small talk I asked her when her next day off of work was. She said thursday, I, Ok what are doing to that night? She was shocked and said "you mean what am I doing?" No I said what are "we" doing? But long story short got her number and we seen each other for over a year.

[jb12]

Hep, you're the man. P8ntbllr, just listen to hep. Most girls like to have a man that has confidence and will not be scared to come out and say stuff like that.

[p8ntbllr2001]

waaaaahaaaaa :flowers: i am such a wimp, im never gonna be able to do this. One of u guys is gonna have to come down here and kick my @$$ untill i get the balls to ask her.

[three fut nuthin]

lil ol 5'3 *me* will.... *flexes*

[BuNkErKiNg09]

Just be forward, works for me everytime. Do this just say to her so what are we gonna do after the dance? She'll be like what? Then you say after I pick you up and we are done at the dance what do you want to do after that? Basically your implying your taking her and she now isnt on the spot as much. I meet a g/f in traffic court like that. She sat next to me and after a bit of small talk I asked her when her next day off of work was. She said thursday, I, Ok what are doing to that night? She was shocked and said "you mean what am I doing?" No I said what are "we" doing? But long story short got her number and we seen each other for over a year.


thats smooth...like a bunch of people have also said it shows her that you have a sense of humor...but don't get stalker on her if she says no...which she won't!...if you do what we tell you

[p8ntbllr2001]

i fear rejection. :get: *cowers* :get:

[Hep]

Once it does happen if so you will be past that anymore. Either your gonna get the date or worse she says no and you at the same spot your in now. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOOSE. Listen to Daddy and do what I said. 99% gonna guarantee you will get her unless she already found someone else to ask her out while all the time you wasted here asking for insight. Just do it. Take a deep breath and start spillin the line one her. Once you start it will just flow like magic. If you dont then I will never give you advice again.
Alls Im gonna say,
Hep

[Solarstorm16]

dATING tIPS oN aNGEL oWNERS gOTTA lOVE iT!

[- KEVIE -]

And more than just that......right...... :]

[jb12]

One of u guys is gonna have to come down here and kick my @$$ untill i get the balls to ask her.

Give me an address and I will, I'm 6'4" and about 215 lbs. No, but really, just go up to her and be straight forward. Girls don't like it when guys are all wimpy and scared of them. Just get it in your head that you're gonna do it, and then go up and ask her.

[little_miss_trouble]

Now I wouldn't mind comeing down there and beating you till you had the balls to ask her... need to grow a spine boy.....not everything is going to come to you.... take the advice and put it to the test ...... I DARE YOU ... hehe.









I'm serious if you dont get off your lazy paintballer @$$ and go ask her I will personally be down there to beat you till you get a pair of balls :smile: :grin: :devil1: and then i'll walk you to her front door and make you talk to her. *giggles*

[p8ntbllr2001]

well, i havent tried any suggestions from here, but to make a long story short (and avoid a few embarrasing details) i have a 1 time trial date with a supper hot chearleader. me sooooo happy, though i am yet to ask a girl out my self. :tongue:

[little_miss_trouble]

*rolls eyes*

[p8ntbllr2001]

WHAT???? im a very sensative guy :dil:

[BuNkErKiNg09]

you would be more sensitive if you would actually ask her out! well i dunno, but that sounded kinda kewl

[p8ntbllr2001]

she is SOOOOOOOOOOO hot, this is the kind of girl guys have dreams about or see at school but cant have, and i have her muhahahahahaa!!!!! YAY!!!!!! :love: :x: :bigok: LOL :mex: :lol:

[IwanaANGEL]

Now I wouldn't mind comeing down there and beating you till you had the balls to ask her... need to grow a spine boy.....not everything is going to come to you.... take the advice and put it to the test ...... I DARE YOU ... hehe.









I'm serious if you dont get off your lazy paintballer @$$ and go ask her I will personally be down there to beat you till you get a pair of balls :smile: :grin: :devil1: and then i'll walk you to her front door and make you talk to her. *giggles*
come here and beat me till i ask a girl out, and while ur here do u mind if i ask u out?

[PakmanRevd]

ASK
HER
OUT

Grow some balls.. as the lady here said, everything aint gunna be handed to you.. Either do it or you will beat yourself up later for not doing it.

NO EXCUSES.

[akpaintballer13]

and you paid her how much ?????????
j/k j/k

[Eclipse This]

Yawn... by 16 you should have grown your wings and be fly'n on your own. get off your computer and outside.

[PakmanRevd]

Yawn... by 16 you should have grown your wings and be fly'n on your own. get off your computer and outside.

true story.

even tho im only 15..i agree

[Jouster]

come here and beat me till i ask a girl out, and while ur here do u mind if i ask u out?
I'm hearin' ya, IwanaANGEL. You gotta watch out, though:
1) You don't know her age.
2) You have no clue what she looks like.
3) Jeb would kick your ass.

Jouster

[DarkHope]

Yah dude, its illegal now to even have simulated cyber sex with minors.....to bad, I had quite the buisness going *sigh*

[little_miss_trouble]

LOL *dies of laughter* aww....can't help but smile and laugh....don't know how many times i've heard that line "Jeb will kick your ass" jeeze I never knew my father would be that protective....I mean he lets he hang around Vantage Tes and all the other at the paintball feild *haha*

[little_miss_trouble]

Another thing....I don't go out with boys younger than me nor my own age lol so ;-) *sticks her tongue and giggles*

[Jouster]

Another thing....I don't go out with boys younger than me nor my own age lol so ;-) *sticks her tongue and giggles*
Hey, now, watch your tongue around your elders. I can buy beer and drive rental cars.

Jouster

[little_miss_trouble]

lol uh huh sure *like I care about beer* :-p

[Jouster]

lol uh huh sure *like I care about beer* :-p
Yeah, I haven't had anything to drink (other than a few sips at a wine tasting in France) in over a decade. But still, theoretically, I'm capable of buying alcohol. :smile:

Jouster

[little_miss_trouble]

oh woo for you *waves a little black flag with Jack Daniels on it and rolls eyes wearing her school uniform* lol always fun

[- KEVIE -]

just passing through tehehehehe "wow likes to use a lot of word like visual aides", I like that makes it easier to follow along with what is being said. *sticks finger in nose and contemplates*

[Jouster]

just passing through tehehehehe "wow likes to use a lot of word like visual aides", I like that makes it easier to follow along with what is being said. *sticks finger in nose and contemplates*
Yeah, speaking of visual aids and mental images, this one is entirely unfair:

oh woo for you *waves a little black flag with Jack Daniels on it and rolls eyes wearing her school uniform* lol always fun
Jouster

[Eclipse This]

mmmm plaid skirts :drools:
now i've got a crave'n. damn i gotta get on the phone and take care of this ASAP!

[p8ntbllr2001]

well, unfortunatly i have to go to my homecoming alone :cry: becuase the girl i got didnt have enough notice to be able to go (or some crap like that cus we dont go to the same school) so im gonna be the guy in the dark corner with no date

[Eclipse This]

k here's some advice it seems nobody gave you. reach down between your legs and make sure everything is in place. if you can't feel your balls grow some. that's all it takes man. just ask a girl YOURSELF. a simple introduction and ask them what they're doing the weekend of your next dance. then, "would you do me the honor of accompanying me?" or something of that nature. the better you know the girl the better your odds, but no matter what you're gonna get shot down more often then you'll susceed. that two letter word *NO* doesn't mean the end of the world. just brush it off and go for another.
Better luck next time kid.

--oh and while i'm here... lil miss trouble can we see a pic?--

[Jouster]

k here's some advice it seems nobody gave you. reach down between your legs and make sure everything is in place. if you can't feel your balls grow some. that's all it takes man. just ask a girl YOURSELF. a simple introduction and ask them what they're doing the weekend of your next dance. then, "would you do me the honor of accompanying me?" or something of that nature. the better you know the girl the better your odds, but no matter what you're gonna get shot down more often then you'll susceed. that two letter word *NO* doesn't mean the end of the world. just brush it off and go for another.
Better luck next time kid.

--oh and while i'm here... lil miss trouble can we see a pic?--
Did anyone else find that unspeakably crass and insensitive when directed to a young man still finding his way in the world? He's just trying not to end up with a heart as clearly scarred as yours, ET.

Jouster

[AngelBoi]

Fear of rejection of what?

You are sacraficing nothing for everything, if you dont ask a girl out, no good will come from it. If you do ask her out and she declines, then, so what? You liked her? Good for you! So what? It wouldnt work out anyway...

I was in your situation once too...i know how you feel. I always thought that no hot chick would like me..oh how wrong i was.

I beithed myself, and acted funny and friendly. If she's ticklish, walk up behind her and gently pinch her waist, its not that hard. Chicks like that stuff...

If she's not tickish, then just talk. Thats what chicks like, talking. Be yourself, make sure you dont say anything dumb, if your talking to her in class, make sure your binder and books are closed, and the teacher is out of your mind...yadayada....bada bing bada boom your setup to ask her out.

I planned to ask a chick out at my school after 4th period, and all i said was "So, do you want to go the the movies with me somtime?" bada bing. Done, no pressure.

Put it this way, what are you afraid of? Just do it, it will come out naturally.


Good luck

[little_miss_trouble]

LOL a picture I dont think I gots one lol........ I'll get some of me in my PB stuffs *hehe* I actually played today I think I did okay for not really playing in months.

[p8ntbllr2001]

yup, i was right, home comming sucked so hard it was sad. i stayed for a grand total of an hour and a half, whitch at that point i thought my head would exploed from all the noise and lights. hmmmmm o well.

[paintreliever]

you shoulda' brought a blow up doll...

[Eclipse This]

p8ntballr i can relate to going solo before. i just quit going and polished my techinque during such time. you can't just expect to be good at asking girls out when it comes time for the dances. you need to be at it regularly, it's not something you just turn on and off.
and i wasn't try'n to be mean before i was try'n to be straight up and very clear. you just have to go make that interaction. you'll figure things out if you try. there's no clear cut guide lines for it all.

[little_miss_trouble]

Very ture sometimes you just have to be straight forward to get the point across, being blunt gets peoples attention good or bad. p8ntballr when I was in oh 5th or 6th grade they had dances and my somewhat friends (mind you this was my first year in public school after going to private school forever) I just stood around like an idiot felt real bad and they played crappy music (I mean real crappy boy band stuff) I got so depressed and I couldn't leave cuz I didn't have a ride home and I talked to no one the whole time. Now that was 5th or 6th grade. Now my friends wanted me to go to homecomeing with them...didn't get a ticket....didn't go to the football game.... I still probly would have ended up standing around clueless what to do even thoe I have more friends now (in real life and only one of them is what consider a friend) then I've had in that school ever. I'm a complete and total loser. Now I never was into the school life and all that jazz so doesnt bother me that im missing out. Other people feel different so i'm telling you you gotta be kinda assertive ; you seem to be a nice guy funny sence of humor all that just ask and if you get shot down its alright we are all here for you to b*t©h at *hehe* we will listen :-)

[p8ntbllr2001]

sniff sniff, tear tear, i luv u guys (and gals)

[Jim@ImpactPaintball]

236 posts later.....did you get the girl?

[p8ntbllr2001]

im 80% there

[little_miss_trouble]

hmmm not good enough *pushes you out the door and takes all your toys away (and things that are shiny and expensive)* try harder and maybe just maybe youll get these back hehe

[jb12]

80% isn't near good enough, would you go play paintball w/ your angel only running @ 80% (even though it'd still be better than most guns out there), I think not. Just GO for it. Tomorrow morning go into school and when you first see her, walk up to her and ask her how her weekend was. Just make good conversation and then ask her to do something with you one night this week.

[Eclipse This]

yeah if you tell yourself "aw i'll do it after lunch" or whatever you'll almost always puss out. i know, i've done it more then once. commit to it 100% and just go for it.

[AngelBoi]

im 80% there

NEVER think like that...

[little_miss_trouble]

Agress with both posts above

[Paint Bum]

Teach your dog to play paintball. Girls LOVE cute little doggies. As a bonus, your dog will NEVER let you get bunkered.

[p8ntbllr2001]

im going with teaching my dog to play ball

[little_miss_trouble]

the poor dog

[Paint Bum]

Oh, not at all. He has a custom JT mask and a '04 Dust blue Speed. Plays Forward for the Seattle "IronHydrants".

[little_miss_trouble]

well my dog hmm hes really tall and likes to hurt me and hmm what else he shoots way too much paint and rolls in the dirt and mud every weekend :-D

[p8ntbllr2001]

my dog likes to fish in the pond in my back yard, but back to the topic!!!

[little_miss_trouble]

my 'dogs' name is Jason whats yours? LOL (im just kidding)